Cierra Fletcher

Tribe Momma

Cierra Fletcher

Meet Cierra

Matriarch of the Tribe

It’s an incredible feeling to know that the young ladies I’m raising—preparing for a world that isn’t always easy—can recognize the actions and values I try to live by. I never strive to compete; I strive to inspire. I’ve conquered a lot of challenges in my life, and I’ve managed to find the strength to push through—not just for myself but for them.

Beautiful Chaos

They bring out every side of me: the goofy, the sassy, the serious, and the spontaneous. And truly, I just wish the world could see what I see every day through my own eyes, because watching my three girls grow is nothing short of amazing. As I reach new fitness and health goals, I’ll be sharing the chaotic, exciting, beautifully busy life we live—because this journey with my girls is something we share- and it really is our greatest adventure.

Road Blocks

I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve hit more than a few roadblocks along the way—ones that left me in a place where I no longer knew who I was, beyond being a mom to my girls who needed me. A tough divorce after 14 years forced me to pick up the pieces of not only myself, but my daughters too, all while learning how to survive as a single mom, going to school, and simply getting through each day. Later, I endured domestic abuse that resulted in three surgeries and yet another deeply painful chapter of my life, including having to face the man who hurt me in court. Those roadblocks left me carrying immense pain, depression, and a loss of self-worth and self-esteem. But those same roadblocks also grounded me. They shaped me into the woman I am today—the mother, sister, daughter, friend, and girlfriend I am now.

Empowerment

After years of soul-searching, therapy, reading, and prayer, I finally found my voice. I recognized my true worth and learned to accept and appreciate the woman I am. The journey wasn’t easy—nothing ever comes without struggle—but every stepping stone forward gave me an overwhelming sense of empowerment. Raising my girls as a single mother while working third shift and attending school full-time—and graduating—empowerment.
Finding solutions so I could stand on my own financially—empowerment.
Confidently setting boundaries in any situation without guilt—empowerment.
Providing for and protecting my girls with full independence—empowerment.

It is possible. And if I was able to do it, why not share that experience, knowledge, and joy by helping others find their own strength?

Gotta keep it movin'

Can't is not a word...

My roadblocks pushed me to become a better version of myself. That said, I’ll be open and honest—I blamed those roadblocks for holding me back from reaching goals I wanted to achieve much sooner in life. I was afraid of failing, afraid of disappointing my girls and my family. Because of that fear, I followed career paths that felt safer—paths that allowed me to provide, but didn’t bring me joy. My associate degree is my highest level of education, and I pursued the medical field because I truly love helping others. Still, the career never felt like home. For years, I talked about writing a book or starting a blog, but I allowed those dreams to drift further and further away, never making them a priority. Now, I’m here—finally saying enough is enough. I want more for my life and for my family. I want to create something that brings me peace. I want to blog not only to build financial freedom and the ability to travel, but to offer a real, unfiltered, and authentic glimpse into life for others to follow along with. If along the way my story can inspire, uplift, or even change someone’s life, then every step has been worth it. I've found a new passion and importance in health not only mentally and emotionally, but physically. The gym has been my new passion and with showing my progress, I'm hoping it also helps others be reminded to never worry on what anyone else thinks, you are beautiful, and you can do it! Remember: Can't never did do nothin' cause Can't never did try! Go make it happen!

Role-Models

There are a few individuals who have played powerful roles in my life, but most importantly, my parents. Growing up, I watched them overcome some of the hardest obstacles in their lives and in their marriage. Through them, I learned the true, authentic meaning of love, loyalty, commitment, dedication, tears, and the power of teamwork. They never once gave up on each other—even in their weakest moments—and they always made sure to provide for me, protect me, and prepare me to become the best version of myself. Then and now, they continue to remind me of the woman I am and the true potential they see in me. Even when I failed, they reminded me that failure is not the end, that it does not define me, and that I can accomplish anything I put my mind and heart into.

My Peace

I’ve finally committed to finding my place in following God—learning to understand, trust, and truly believe. The more I commit to reading, attending services, and prayer, the more peace I find within myself: in my decisions, my goals, and my boundaries. This peace allows me to be the best mom I can be, the sister others can lean on during hard times, and the daughter who shows up when my parents need me most. Knowing my family is always there to support me and help me grow. And for the first time in a very long time, I’m walking in purpose alongside a man who shares the same love for God, values family and goals, and respects and loves me fully for who I am. With this peace, I feel confident pursuing my goals—launching my blogging website, strengthening my body in the gym while honoring my health and well-being, and striving toward buying a home and so much more, all with intention and gratitude.